Treating Wedding Nerves with Hypnotherapy
Problems and symptoms it can present There are lots of problems and systems associated with wedding nerves, they include;
How does hypnotherapy help?
The most common service I am asked for by clients is help in getting more confidence. Because I only deal with real world results, I help clients achieve goals that are tangible and measurable. My first question always is “what would having more confidence allow you to do, that you cannot do at the moment?”
Hypnotherapy works in 4 stages. You first address underlying issues, then change your internal beliefs about yourself, project your life into the future and finally set small achievable goals.
Addressing underlying issues
Before you are able to progress in your life, you need to know where you are and what has caused problems in the past. A lot of people will know what incident/incidents have caused the problems, yet many do not. When you do not know the problems it is likely to be a repressed memory and this can be explored and released in hypnosis.
Changing internal beliefs
Once you have clearly understood what has caused the problems, you can address what you believe about yourself. A great way to do this is to see yourself in a situation where you have problems and see what emotions come up. Image seeing yourself at the wedding and see how awkward it is and how you are acting. What sort of person would act that way, what do you think of this person. Once you identify your negative beliefs, they can be neutralised.
Projecting your life into the future
People with wedding nerves often think very negatively about the event. When you believe the event is going to go badly, you naturally feel anxious and try to avoid the situation. In hypnotherapy we get you to see what your life would be like in the future if you were able to speak and present like you want. This builds a new program for your mind to follow in the situation itself and it helps to remove anxiety.
Setting small achievable goals
In hypnotherapy we set small achievable goals, not massive impossible ones. If you want more confidence in speaking to people then a small goal may be to talk to groups of 2-3 people to start with. The more you speak to groups of people, the better you become. When you set small goals they are easy to achieve, also when you achieve a goal it makes you feel successful. Success breeds confidence, and confidence breeds success.
How many sessions does it take?
A minimum of 2 sessions is required. The first session is 90 minutes in length with follow on sessions lasting 45 minutes.
What should I do next?
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